Keep reminding God’s people of these things. Warn them before God against quarreling about words; it is of no value, and only ruins those who listen. 2 Timothy 2:14 (NIV).
I’m becoming a fan of the Facebook snooze feature. If a friend of mine sends a view or opinion that is particularly difficult to abide, or if what they say is particularly hostile, I turn off notifications for those comments. I don’t want to un-friend them, but I don’t need the negativity. Our comments may be well-received by some but also may be hurtful to others. The better way would be to simply delete this social media so as to avoid the temptation. But I enjoy Facebook for the ability to keep up with family and friends, and to share things like this blog, family moments, and things I believe both secular and faith-based. So, until the point of staying off it altogether, I’m using the snooze. I bet quite a few folks have done this to my comments already.
Thank God He doesn’t snooze us. My friend, John, said (on Facebook about Facebook) that social media is a mile wide and an inch deep. It’s designed to keep us quarreling, not really for our betterment. Quarreling about words ruins us. It ruins our relationships. It ruins our families. It ruins our politics. It ruins our lives.
Paul wrote these words two millenia before social media existed. In his day, social media was called “personal conversation.” And if you think about it, those personal conversations have been made even easier to destroy by the advent of social media. Online, you and I can say what we want without the responsibility for prudence that comes with saying those things face to face. If you say something objectionable to someone face to face, they can (and often do) call you out on it, sometimes physically. If we do that online, there’s no real response except to that the recipients’ emotions are activated.
Nothing good comes from that. The book of Titus says that these are unprofitable and useless, producing nothing good that benefits anyone. It was true then; it’s true now. I need to act differently. How about you?
This is the day after the day after Easter. Jesus is still risen. He is still alive, at work, living through you and I and all we think, say, and do. We have the gift of electronic communication to enable us to reach each other instantly across the planet. How will we use that today? I’m working to do better, so I’m challenging you to do the same, even if that means snoozing it.
For further reading: 1 Timothy 1:4, Titus 3:9, 2 Timothy 2:15.
Forgiving Lord Jesus, help me to use the gifts of conversation and media responsibly, for Your benefit, in ways that help others.